[Both. But it sounds like she's got a lot of ponderings on her own plate. And he can understand it, even if it's only a little. He had to figure himself out at one point, after all.

He nods as he listens, giving a sympathetic hum at the end.]

Well, even if you're an ally just showing your support, I'm sure you're welcome here. I've had a few swing by my little stall before, and I'm glad they wanted to be there. It means a lot when people who aren't a part of it still want to help in any way they can.

But wanting to figure yourself out first is a good start, I think. It can certainly lend to understanding. Do you have any ideas on which labels might speak the most to you?